Valentine’s Day February 14th
I love Valentine’s Day, in my own way.
I am an Artist and Creativity Coach, so I have given myself permission to ignore that which I don’t like - blatant consumerism. My husband of many years can attest to this. He is not allowed to buy me roses or overpriced chocolates on Valentine’s Day. It may seem hard, but I viscerally react to the pressure society imposes on us to “buy, buy, buy,” so instead I “make, make, make.”
For many years I’ve hosted Valentine’s Day parties, teas, and art making workshops. I have to admit I do have a tender spot in my heart for vintage velvet candy boxes; and Victorian cards attract me as a moth is drawn to light.
I think of Valentine’s Day as a time to reflect on love. Not only for our families, friends, and those closest to us, but also those folks in this world whose paths cross and intertwine with ours, or perhaps we may be privileged to work with professionally.
If we open our hearts and allow ourselves to feel love, we are more prepared to pass it on to our clients and colleagues. When I spend time everyday doing something I truly love, or something that fosters joy in creating, I firmly believe it is good for my heart.
All “Holidays” can be difficult for those who don’t have close relationships in their lives. And Valentine’s Day in particular, can have a strong effect on those who are alone.
So, I say, “Change your focus.” Look around and create your own rituals with friends. Make new Friends! Love is not just for couples.
Be good to yourself this Valentine’s Day and enjoy.
xoxo Eileen
